I'm Just Saying...........

Random thought: 

Love should be like Jazz, smooth, unintimidating, and not fussy

Love should also be boastful, loud, and command its audience…..but effortlessly

If you don’t know what a Catch 22 is, you didn’t retain the above. It took me quite a while to do the same before I found out the secret of love

They say Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars….well catch this, when you look in the eyes of Love you see *s*t*a*r*s*                         (how celestial lol)

Loves makes you do things you never thought you could, love makes you do things you hoped you never would.

Love is being free. J-LO said it shouldn’t cost a thing. Love is the automatic smile you get when you imagine that diamond ring.                           (she should have a permanent smile)

Love shouldn’t be challenging…or should it? I agree it should make you think.           (thinking)

Love should be everything that’s pretty and Pink.                           (Awww)

This tricky number 22 is a double crosser and swift……….you’ll catch up with in the next verse

Love is the ultimate Catch 22…. A blessing and a curse

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In my opinionated opinion most of all, love should be easy. Ladies, if you have to question love, then it doesn’t exist. PERIOD! That’s what he keeps trying to tell you, but not out loud because that is not how men communicate. Before leveling with you he would rather put up with you and watch you drive yourself crazy while you rant and rave about him cheating on you (example). While he is laughing on the inside your energy is falling on deaf ears.  If you would open your own ears you will hear yourself asking questions you already have the answer to. Stop being complacent, stop being available. Stop being complacent about being available. Stop it I say! He’s just not that into you. Stop making it easy for him. Make it easy for you. You are the only you, you have and there is no love like self love and if you don’t totally love yourself, how can you totally love someone else! TOTALLY impossible!

….Speaking of him not being that in to you, let me give you a little insight with a little song….

“I’m not tryna’ pressure you, just can’t stop thinkn’ bout you, you ain’t even really gotta be my girlfriend. I just wanna know your name and maybe sometime we could hook up, hang out, just chill”. -Musiq Soul Child.

Male interpretation: JUST WHAT IT SAID!

Female interpretation: Girrrrrl, do you remember the really cute guy we saw at the mall? You know I gave him my phone number right? Well he called today and told me he just couldn’t stop thinking about me after we met………

And this is what’s going to happen next:

We’ll go on out first date where we meet up a nice restaurant. We will have a great time chatting, and laughing about how much we have in common and in my head I will be wondering where he has been all my life. He will be the perfect gentleman all night and later drives me home. He tells me he had a wonderful time and how we should do this again sometime.

You adore the fact that he didn’t ask to come in so you decided to invite him in. One thing lead to another and you ended up having sex with a guy with no last name. It was great and he stayed all night. He promised he would call and after a couple of days, you haven’t received a call from which pissed you off (which also means your feelings are emotionally tied) ALREADY!***

After he finally calls you, he gets you back on his good side quickly by explaining that he hasn’t been able to call because he lost his phone. The information he failed to disclose was that he had to make up to his girlfriend for staying out all night the night he was with you.

After a brief conversation he convinced you to go play cards at one of his homeboy’s house. You are pacified by this gesture and thought aww how sweet he wants me to meet his boys…..awwww!  SUCKERRRRRRRRR

Anyway, time passes and over time he, you figured out he’s not the guy you thought he was. You thought he was the guy you were going to marry, you thought he would cherish you, you thought he would be everything you wanted him to be. Problem is every man is not that man. Stop jumping the broom before you gather the straw.

There some good men out there but you are stunting your possibilities every time you think you feel something. Stop putting all your eggs in one basket. You have to be the owner of your own emotions and feelings after all you control them…get a grip, avoid the heartache.

The beginning of this chapter started out with a song right? (refer back to top)

Male perspective….. Short!

Female perspective…….. CLUELESS =/        

That’s usually how men and women are…..IJS

Sooo, Kim Kardashian.... The epitome of a catch 22 right?  Love ya’ Kim, such a hopeless romantic. There is love for you yet girl, I promise!